Simple Steps To Get Back With Your Ex

The Magic Of Making Up

Have you just recently broken up with your girlfriend or boyfriend and you are wondering "how can I get back together with my ex”? You may want to get back with your ex immediately, and this is a common feeling that nearly everyone experiences.

You may find yourself in an emotionally depressed state, and you may find that you are asking yourself what to do and wondering what to do. Do you feel like calling your ex and begging him or her to come back to you? Do you think that this would really make things better? Rather than make things better, what it is probably going to do is make your situation much worse, and chase your ex away even further.

Ever see the Seinfeld episode where George did the exact opposite of what seemed to make sense? What you should actually do at this point is the opposite of what you are feeling. Do you feel like calling your ex? Don't! Do you feel like staying inside and crying all day long? Absolutely don't! Instead, follow these simple steps and you will have the answer that you need to the age old question "How do I get back together with my ex?"

• Accept the Break Up!

First and foremost, you need to accept that you are breaking up. Tell your ex that you are okay with it, and tell yourself that you are okay with it. When you do this, it will eliminate a large amount of the tension and stress that is being experienced by all. Your ex will need time to think about the relationship, and this is a positive thing for the two of you. If your ex realizes that he or she still loves you, they will find a way to get back with you.

•  Do not contact your ex!

Do not make an effort to contact your ex. Let some time pass. You should cut communication off with him or her so that there can be some thinking or "me time". This may seem counterintuitive, but by cutting communication off you are signaling that you have already moved on and that you are doing fine without them. In other words, you are showing strength rather than weakness.

This will allow him or her to think about the relationship and how they feel about its value. It will also give them time to miss you again. When you can separate yourself from your ex and can calm your nerves, that may be the best time to let them realize how important you were to them.

• Plan Ahead for the Get Together

Once you have completed the two steps mentioned above and time has passed, work on planning on when you should meet, where you should meet, and also what should be said when you do meet up again. This will allow you to get a better idea of whether or not your ex still loves you, and also if there is any chance that you and your ex will be able to get back together.

"How to get back with my ex?" Can be a little more complicated than the three steps above. But they are a good start and will improve your chances of winning your ex back. I highly recommend The Magic Of Making Up.